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Dear Jean, I’m going to drop the dating coach bit for a second and just be a guy.When I was dating prolifically, I’d be going out with two or three women at a time. But no matter what, I was looking to keep my options open, have fun, and sometimes get a little action.By the way, whether you agree or not, I considered myself a NICE guy.I slept with very few people, I never said, “I love you” and I rarely kept a physical relationship going beyond a few weeks, if I felt it was headed nowhere. To a woman who woke up next to me after a first date and thought that we were “in a relationship”, I can see how she felt differently…. My friend, dating coach and matchmaker, Julie Ferman, talks about what a strange world we live in where we are more comfortable sleeping with a stranger than we are TALKING about what it means to sleep together. Better to hop in bed and hope we can handle the emotional consequences than it is to have a weird conversation about commitment, right? Until you GET this, until you truly EMBRACE the fact that we think with our penises and allow our brains to catch up weeks later, you’re ALWAYS going to be surprised at the “disconnect” between men’s words and their actions.
And every single time I went out, I did two things: In short, I wanted every single date to feel good about me, so I would have the option of going out with her again. And yes, I was always in pursuit of a long-term relationship.I just didn’t want to deprive myself entirely of sexual activity until I fell in love.