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However, to acquire the status of Alpha, a female would have to kill a lot more other wolves than a male would. Sonya Rhodes new book, The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match, says that shouldn’t be the case.Furthermore, to avoid an Alpha-male rising, the Alpha female must have the ability to bully, dominate and even kill the Beta males who insist on attempting to mate with her or otherwise demonstrate their own Alpha status. Rhodes aims to strip the Alpha of its gender clichés; she argues that Alpha women shouldn’t limit themselves to one socioeconomic group or a partner who shares their lifestyle. Common wisdom usually suggests that the alpha man is nature’s winner whilst the Alpha woman is a cold bitch (and the Beta bloke works in IT and still lives with his mum).So I’ve decided I'm going to find myself a Beta man. What should you remember if you find yourself dating me, or any another Alpha female?
Alpha women, Rhodes argues, shouldn't aim for someone who mirrors their own behaviour, they should remember that just as Alpha women aren't demanding bitches, Beta men aren't necessarily passive wimps.It can be a huge relief for an Alpha to take a break from being in the driving seat, whether that's in the bedroom or in picking a restaurant for dinner. 7 We are constantly battling the myth that being a professional ruins a woman's chances of having a private life.But to be defensive and standoffish comes naturally to an Alpha.In the animal world, it's just as likely that the Alpha in a wolf pack would be female as male.
1 We may have an aloof and/or intimidating demeanor, but that doesn't mean we aren't interested.
2 However, it does mean that you'll probably have to work harder. We need something to know where we stand, and what you will and will not tolerate. 4 Don't presume we will always want to set the agenda in the relationship.