Dating an ex when married
” And most people just assume we started the site while we were together and are now stuck in some sort of joint custody nightmare. We started the site long after our relationship ended and soon after our new-found friendship came to be.
Eric isn’t the only ex I’ve been able to be friends with, there actually are a few of them.
You need time to heal and cry and analyze and mourn.
So now the answer to the question I’ve gotten a million times before, how can you be friends with an ex? You can not break up and then go out for coffee as pals the next day, or even the next week, or the next month.
), you may experience a level of jealousy you never thought existed within you, and feelings that you’ve long since buried can abruptly be woken from the dead unleashing a whole Pandora’s Box worth of pain and problems. First, it’s really wonderful to have someone who was once so important to you back in your life.There is a great comfort in having someone who knows exactly who you are, good and bad, and just you. Maybe you’ll get answers to the questions that have been haunting you.Maybe you’ll find that you are 100% over your ex and can look back and laugh at the fact that you once so staunchly believed you would never be able to live without this person.Or, you can find yourselves on a very exciting journey, like starting a website for instance!
Once upon a time, Eric and I we were in a very serious relationship, and, without going into too many of the gory details, we had a seriously awful breakup.
Whenever I tell people I started this site with my ex, I get the same horrified look followed by the same burning question: “HOW?!