Been dating when you fought
Unfortunately, one of the ways that we tend to express this is by pointing out that the other person is mistaken or doesn’t understand.And let me tell you: there’s nothing like telling a person “no, you’re wrong” to turn a minor fight into a major confrontation.This is a contribute (paying the bills, picking up around the house, whatever) then we’re trying show that what we do is equivalent…which it may well be in terms of comparative time/effort spent, but that doesn’t actually address the issue.I’ll be back in 15 minutes/a half hour/an hour.” Here’s something that trips a lot of people up: sometimes we pick the wrong battles, whether we’re the aggressor or not. We get into fights – or make fights worse – because we don’t stop to ask ourselves whether the fight is one .One of the most common conflicts in relationships involves the desire to be “correct” rather than “right”.
Men tend to look for concrete “do this and things will be better” solutions to conflicts.
Similarly, yeah, your girlfriend may have seen what Congratulations: you’ve fallen victim to one of the classic blunders – the most famous of which is “no wait I can explain”, but only slightly less well known is this: NOBODY ever believes you when you say “This isn’t what it looks like!