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Now that I’m single in my 30’s, I really only want to date guys very close to my age.

Less than a handful of years younger would be okay, and maybe one or two years older, but that’s about it.

I’d always felt pretty mature for my age (as so many women do), and especially in comparison to the guys around me.

I stayed married to my husband for seven years, and by the time our relationship ended, I saw our age difference in a completely different way.

According to Hugo Schwyzer, this age dynamic is sexist and hurts men and women alike.

Christopher Ryan of Psychology Today argues – in direct response to Schwyzer – that there’s an “innate biological desire men hold for women in their most fertile years,” and that such a desire is perfectly natural.

We’ve all heard this idea before: men are designed to want to spread their seed, so in spite of their age and inability with age to care for children, they remain attracted to women who can propagate their DNA.

He says, “If there’s one tangible thing that men can do to help end sexism—and create a healthier culture in which young people come of age—it’s to stop chasing after women young enough to be their biological daughters.” Schwyzer goes on to say, “As hyperbolic as it may sound, there are few more powerful actions that men can take to transform the culture than to date, mate, and stay with their approximate chronological peers.

If aging guys would commit to doing this, everyone would benefit: older men and younger men, older women and younger women.” There’s no doubt that not everyone will agree with Schwyzer on this, especially not other middle-aged men.Schwyzer, on the other hand, believes that men are not hardwired to be attracted to younger women.



They have a certain amount of respect that differs from an older man.… continue reading »


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