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Guys nowadays think that buying the drink gives you permission to talk to and even harass that person.
You should always think of buying the drink as a selfless gesture.
And if they don't want to talk to you, it's okay, you will find someone who does. If she's not that kind of woman, then approach her as if she was a friend, find some common ground, hopefully get in a laugh, and make a real connection beyond the obvious 'how fast can I get her in bed? I'm partial to distracting activities around strangers though [so it doesn't get awkward or whatever].” “Major turn-off when a guy approaches, offers to buy a drink smoothly, and proceeds to snap or shout for the attention of the bartender.They're not a bad person or a bitch or an asshole just because they're not interested in having a conversation with you.” .) "Tell her that her titties make her ass look smaller! Patience and kindness is seductive.” “Things that are not funny include: comments about the bar/the service, politics/religion (this isn't your stand-up show), my body, or my friends.It deserves no more than a 'thank you' if accepted.” “You don't really know if the lady is having a bad day and just wants to be alone, or is having a great day and is hunting. Plus, a guy steps into unknown territory, while the bartender has already been talking to this person.” “Guys are dicks in bars mostly because they roll with a bunch of other dudes and it shifts into a pack mentality.They're not trying to impress the girl, but their friends.” “Honestly, superficial compliments are a pretty great way to get me to shut down. I don't believe anything they say and try to get away immediately.” “Say hello, introduce yourself, and have a normal conversation.
Blatant staring is just creepy and uncomfortable.” “Aim for the thrill of a sub-conversation held only with the eyes.” “Don't send over a light beer, especially if I'm not drinking a light beer.
If they are right next to me, you offer them a drink too.